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Unlock Meaningful Talks in Minutes
Simple Steps to Deepen Any Conversation
Small talk is fine. It helps us get through the day without awkwardness. But let’s be real — talking about the weather or your weekend plans can get boring.
If you’ve ever wanted to have more meaningful talks, the kind that make you think and stick with you, you’re not alone. Deep conversations help us connect, learn, and grow.
They build stronger relationships by fostering understanding and giving us a chance to share our true selves.
Here are some simple ways to have better, deeper talks with others.
1. Be Curious About the Other Person
If you want to go deeper, ask better questions. Instead of “How’s work?” try something like, “What’s the most exciting thing you’ve done this week?” or “What’s a goal you’re really proud of achieving recently?”
You could also ask, “What’s something new you’ve learned lately?” These types of questions make the other person think about something personal and interesting.
This makes the other person think about something personal and interesting.
Personal story: I once asked my neighbor about the book she was reading instead of saying, “How are you?” That small…
